Causes of aggression in the family and its implication
Many negative and wrong of the situation in the family can make the child in the future tyrant. Since childhood, when faced, for example, parents with alcoholism, scandals, fights, he could not help them. The little man felt helpless. At the same time she was accompanied by anger and hatred of the loved ones, for the fact that he could not influence the situation. Growing up, the person seeking compensation for the old feelings of humiliation and weakness.
Now he's looking for power, control over the family and friends. To start a family, the husband of a tyrant and aggressor begins to put all the permissible scope of conduct comes up with the system of punishments for the guilty, causes account for every penny spent, or even worse, beats his wife. The only way he will feel the power and complete control over the situation, which was lacking when he was a child.
Now he's looking for power, control over the family and friends. To start a family, the husband of a tyrant and aggressor begins to put all the permissible scope of conduct comes up with the system of punishments for the guilty, causes account for every penny spent, or even worse, beats his wife. The only way he will feel the power and complete control over the situation, which was lacking when he was a child.
Model behavior of many women in the family often is that it is trying to make a "henpecked" of men. The oppressed man starts looking for a way out of this situation, unfortunately, often it becomes an alcoholic. Constant tantrums, tears, insults, humiliation, discontent with family life can turn a calm and balanced man into a tyrant of his wife. How long is impossible to tolerate, restlessness wife may lead to violent outbursts from a spouse and do not sin to crises of family life.
Never before has a hard total control of the children did not lead to good results. When a cup of patience overflows, and then it will be impossible to guess what the situation may result. It is possible that the aggression of the tyrant will turn against him. Children may rebel and always leave their parents, a wife to leave her husband, or vice versa.
If you live in a family for several generations, the indirect aggressors may make older people. Becoming older, they feel helpless. Manipulation of their condition - that is their main weapon in the struggle for power. An elderly man makes all family members feel guilty before him. Only guilt others before him could bring him satisfaction with their situation. Sometimes in the course are explicit threat: "I will die," "go home", etc.
Never before has a hard total control of the children did not lead to good results. When a cup of patience overflows, and then it will be impossible to guess what the situation may result. It is possible that the aggression of the tyrant will turn against him. Children may rebel and always leave their parents, a wife to leave her husband, or vice versa.
If you live in a family for several generations, the indirect aggressors may make older people. Becoming older, they feel helpless. Manipulation of their condition - that is their main weapon in the struggle for power. An elderly man makes all family members feel guilty before him. Only guilt others before him could bring him satisfaction with their situation. Sometimes in the course are explicit threat: "I will die," "go home", etc.
Work occupies an important part of our lives. Someone makes a career, for others it does not matter. However, to move up the career ladder is important how efficiently you use your time. So you thoughtful and perhaps not for the first time. Sometimes a day goes by, and made not so much to do. Where are wasting precious time?
The human factor is always plays a big role. I called a friend, arranged a smoke, drank tea. The day these small breaks can be "coming up" for an hour.
The human factor is always plays a big role. I called a friend, arranged a smoke, drank tea. The day these small breaks can be "coming up" for an hour.
The first place for distractions experts call the Internet. Check e-mail several times a day, to communicate in social networks, read news, view photos of the neighbor, to comment on an interesting video. Sometimes the need for an online presence turns into a compulsive obsession.
This category may include communication through interactive programs (eg, ICQ, ICQ nicknamed in people). How can I not respond to a friend (whom you may never had never seen), if the panel is flashing message icon compulsively? Some are not aware that the program is simply not necessary to include.
The next moment, a distraction from the work process, are coffee-breaks and smoke breaks together employees. And some do not start working until the morning drink a cup of coffee. This, of course, a great opportunity to discuss the latest gossip and make friends with colleagues.Only here to answer at this time, the phone no one.
Not configures a working mood and mess on the table. When you can not find the document and spend time looking for him, rather than to pull it from the folder where it was supposed to be, it is your inability to organize workflow.
Always turn on the radio, calling a cell phone - do not tune in to assistants working wave. Talking on a mobile personal topics is not a crime, but when you half an hour discussing with her husband where to go, and then figure out in detail how was your day your child is already too much.
Try to analyze your time and you will be surprised how much time you can find the reserves to work duties. If you want to.
This category may include communication through interactive programs (eg, ICQ, ICQ nicknamed in people). How can I not respond to a friend (whom you may never had never seen), if the panel is flashing message icon compulsively? Some are not aware that the program is simply not necessary to include.
The next moment, a distraction from the work process, are coffee-breaks and smoke breaks together employees. And some do not start working until the morning drink a cup of coffee. This, of course, a great opportunity to discuss the latest gossip and make friends with colleagues.Only here to answer at this time, the phone no one.
Not configures a working mood and mess on the table. When you can not find the document and spend time looking for him, rather than to pull it from the folder where it was supposed to be, it is your inability to organize workflow.
Always turn on the radio, calling a cell phone - do not tune in to assistants working wave. Talking on a mobile personal topics is not a crime, but when you half an hour discussing with her husband where to go, and then figure out in detail how was your day your child is already too much.
Try to analyze your time and you will be surprised how much time you can find the reserves to work duties. If you want to.
Help! The man sat down on the neck
Some women believe that a man is the best ornament of a woman, and therefore ready to hoist the desired "object" on their own shoulders, and this behavior does not even require the application of force. So, you can give a man fully aware of its uniqueness and originality, all day long waiting for a phone call a loved one, forgetting about all your really important matters. What if the chosen one will be bored, tired of watching TV or need your help, because to go for a beer alone it just laziness? You're sure to be happy just to run to the kiosk to buy cigarettes for the faithful.
So, a small instruction after performing a repair, and in the bathroom, as well as the laying of sewer pipes lie on your fragile shoulders, and the rest of the work is certainly too. But you did and achieved, is not it? In fact, everything is very simple. If you follow at least some of the requirements, the result will not take long.
So, a small instruction after performing a repair, and in the bathroom, as well as the laying of sewer pipes lie on your fragile shoulders, and the rest of the work is certainly too. But you did and achieved, is not it? In fact, everything is very simple. If you follow at least some of the requirements, the result will not take long.
But if the favorite will begin to sneeze, you can immediately go to the stores for disposable handkerchiefs worn by all hypermarkets in search of oranges from Morocco as your favorite not tolerate Turkish or Spanish citrus. By taking excessive care, women can ensure their dream of dreams "object" bed rest, day stand at the stove, preparing the best diet foods and forget about yourself. And do not forget to provide a home subdued light to your chosen sick feeling as comfortable as possible.
Featuring handpicked its own autonomy, always be sure to pay for the seed itself, and if need be - and for him, that he realized that without you simply can not do. Your "object" very quickly gets used to the fact that their costs, he will hang on you, but a woman can only be happy that she is not one of self-serving "blondes" who are interested only in the money men. Remind elect all upcoming important matters for him, including my mother calls, and do not forget to buy their favorite yogurt and sweets, as well as appropriate ties to the new shirts.
But what the "object" is still here, do not ask him anything, and do not complain about their own problems, headaches and other problems. Any request you can scare away even the elect at the time love, as he has not had time to sit on your head. Shoot your own apartment and enjoy a carriage items, furniture arrangement and connection of the washing machine and let the "object" to make sure that you can do anything.
Featuring handpicked its own autonomy, always be sure to pay for the seed itself, and if need be - and for him, that he realized that without you simply can not do. Your "object" very quickly gets used to the fact that their costs, he will hang on you, but a woman can only be happy that she is not one of self-serving "blondes" who are interested only in the money men. Remind elect all upcoming important matters for him, including my mother calls, and do not forget to buy their favorite yogurt and sweets, as well as appropriate ties to the new shirts.
But what the "object" is still here, do not ask him anything, and do not complain about their own problems, headaches and other problems. Any request you can scare away even the elect at the time love, as he has not had time to sit on your head. Shoot your own apartment and enjoy a carriage items, furniture arrangement and connection of the washing machine and let the "object" to make sure that you can do anything.